Choices, Choices: Lesson #6

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The Heartbreak of Unchosen Healing

Hey there, beautiful ones! Today’s life lesson of 2023 breaks my heart a little, but it’s a truth that deserves honoring – The journey of healing is a choice. Yep! Plain and simple.

This revelation bugged me at first, as I navigated my way through the labyrinth of self-awareness. I’d dispense advice on shadow work, meditation, healthy eating, and morning routines, sharing glimpses of what catalyzed positive shifts in my life. But despite the possibilities laid out before them, people, especially those I deeply care about, consistently chose to remain where they were.

Deciphering the Healing Code

As I delved deeper into the vastness of the Universe, seeking reasons for this resistance to healing, I stumbled upon a profound truth – healing, no matter the reasons, is a choice. This realization forced me to confront my own journey honestly.

At 40, I’m just starting to see the world for what it truly is, with aspects I adore and others not so much. But embarking on this odyssey of healing and self-discovery was a conscious choice. Frustration and dissatisfaction had driven me to my breaking point, compelling me to seek solutions within myself instead of waiting for external help.

My quest, though far from easy, has been transformative. Shadow work isn’t for the faint of heart, and many shy away from that challenging road. I used to be one of them, so I extend grace and understanding to those who resist.

Distancing for Growth

However, for those adamant about remaining in their comfort zones, steering clear of inner exploration, I found it necessary to distance myself. Some relationships had to be left behind, but I parted with love, hoping our paths might intersect again.

Each one of you has the power to make that transformative choice, and I’m here to empower you daily. Understand, though, that it’s ultimately your decision. I have faith in you. And remember, as always, I love you. 💙


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