Hey there, beautiful ones. I wanna talk to you honestly for a minute. I know that you have been doing everything possible to break old habits and patterns and learn to understand your thoughts, feelings, and actions. You’ve been doing the best you can knowing the things you have been discovering about yourself. And I know all this because you’ve been hanging out with me and you know we’re all about emotional, mental, and spiritual growth over here.
Embracing Growth, Letting Go with Love
There’s also something else I know. Those doors you’ve been afraid to close because someone you love is standing on the other side have been haunting you. I know, you know it’s time, but I also know you hold out false hope because who wants to let go of someone they truly love. However, continuing to have them in your life comes at a price to your newfound growth.
They’ve been around while you’ve gone through the ebbs and flows of the healing process. They’ve seen what you have accomplished yet they still equate you to who you used to be.
Don’t allow them to make you feel guilty for your growth. Don’t let them bait you into dealing with things you’ve released. Don’t let them unravel everything you have worked so hard for. Because you have worked hard and I know you have.
You Deserve to Flourish
It may be hard but understand they are who they are in your story and only they can change the narrative, but they won’t so you must. Never feel bad for becoming the best version of yourself. Those who truly love you will support you through it all whether they understand or not. Those who only love what they can get from you are the ones in mourning. You are on the right path and don’t allow anyone to sidetrack you especially when it’s to push you back into cycles, patterns, and habits that no longer serve you. They’ll figure it out eventually or maybe they won’t, but you have the right to close that door.
Actually, it would be best if you closed that door however you can because they will never see you the way you would like them to and that’s okay. It may be unfortunate but understand everything is happening exactly as it should.
Closing a door isn’t easy, but it’s a courageous step toward your own growth and self-discovery. It’s about setting boundaries, honoring your progress, and allowing yourself the space to flourish. You’re worth it, and you deserve to surround yourself with those who uplift you and celebrate your journey.
So, take a deep breath, summon your strength, and close that door with love. Trust that new opportunities and relationships aligned with your growth will find their way to you. You’re not alone on this journey. I’m here, cheering you on every step of the way.
I believe in you. And remember, as always, I love you. 💙
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