Hey there, beautiful ones! If you’ve followed the blog for a while, you’ll know I often talk about doing whatever I want. Now, when I say this, I don’t just mean acting with reckless abandon, although I did live like that once upon a time. What I mean is that each moment is spent doing something I accept, enjoy, and that gives me excitement.
The Joy of Doing What You Love
One of my absolute favorite things to do is travel to new and exciting places. I’ve never been able to travel this much before, so I relish every moment of it. But that’s not the only thing I get to do. Doing what I want means walking through a gorgeous neighborhood twice a day for my cardio. It means eating foods that nourish my body and make me feel amazing. It means spending time in my inner world whenever I need to heal something or simply avoid the triggers of the outer world.
Doing what I want also means having the time to write this blog and work towards my financial goals simultaneously, without compromising my sanity or my time. It means investing in things that are beneficial for me mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and financially. It’s about focusing on what matters and leaving the rest behind. Doing what I want means stepping out of generational habits to forge my own path. Every day, I make choices and decisions based solely on my needs and wants, and it feels oh so good, especially for a recovering people-pleaser like me.
Living in a State of Flow
I am not driven by fear, worry, doubt, or anxiety. None of these things serve me in any way. I do what is necessary and let the Universe take care of the rest. This is because I live in a constant state of flow. I don’t fight against the tide; I move with its ebbs and flows. I know it may sound like I’m bragging, but I’m not. I am simply showing you what is possible when you get out of your own way. When you make choices and decisions based on your needs and wants, not on your fears and anxieties.
When you give yourself permission to live fully the way you want to live and not in the way others believe you should live, the world opens up to you. Life is meant to be lived, yet so many are just alive. Too many souls out there have succumbed to societal norms and learned behaviors, leaving little to no room for their authentic selves to thrive. The true, authentic self is not afraid, anxious, worried, or doubtful because it knows what a soul is capable of.
The Power of Self-Trust
This is where trust comes into play. Trusting yourself to be and do all that you desire. So many things have fallen away in my life just because I decided to trust myself and focus on what I truly wanted. Once I did this, everything that wasn’t meant for me left, and everything that was meant for me began falling in my lap. This has given me an indescribable peace. I naturally smile about every aspect of my life. There are moments when I wonder if I am going the right way or doing the right thing. No sooner do I have these moments than I receive a form of confirmation that’s like a road sign pointing to all I desire.
The faith I have in myself these days is unshakable, and this all comes with consistent and constant self-evaluation and self-awareness, two things I lacked for most of my life. I made it a mission to write 365 days’ worth of blog posts because it wasn’t what I had to do, it was what I wanted to do. No one challenged me; I challenged myself. And now we are at day 364 because I continue to do the things that I want to do.
Of course, you beautiful ones benefit from the things I want to do because I share most of it with you. I am not only a light for your path but an example of what is possible when you do the things that bring joy, love, and peace to your life, regardless of how anyone else feels about it. You are the captain of your ship and the master of your soul. You decide where this life will take you, and it’s more than you could ever imagine if you allow yourself to see the bigger picture.
So, my lovelies, know that you can have and do whatever you like. Fear, anxiety, doubt, and worry have no place in your life because you are stronger than you think. The world is your oyster. All you have to do is trust yourself.
I believe in you. And remember, as always, I love you. 💙
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